One might think that refraining from uttering these statements might be common sense. However, if that's true, I must know a lot of ignorant people. You would be surprised at the number of people who say some of these things. The question is WHY? Do they feel awkward? Not know what to say? Are they happy you're gaining weight and uncomfortable? Who knows? Either way it's RUDE! Although I know weight gain is an unavoidable part of pregnancy, it doesn't make it any easier when people point it out. You already feel disgusted with your body. You can't fit your cute clothes, and let's face it, cute maternity clothes are either nonexistent or overly priced. It only adds to the stress when you hear someone make an ignorant statement pretty much calling you fat in so many words. Instead of using one of the following, try "You look great!" "You're such a cute pregnant woman!" "You're glowing!" "You look so happy!" or "The baby is growing!". Refrain from stating the obvious. Of course we're gaining weight! Of course we're dreading delivery! Under no circumstance (unless asked) is it okay to over-share about your child's delivery. It's like telling someone the horrors of surgery right before their operation. Just don't do it! Common sense, people! I've always heard that people make ignorant comments to pregnant women. I guess it's just time I experienced them for myself. I'll take it as my initiation into motherhood. Now, please, stop it!
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